am i being too independent or am i not being treated equally?
i feel so so disappointed with my parents... they always spoil my eldest sister.. She always spend all her money and even borrow money from my mother even though she is working and earning alot.. she doesn't even bother to return the money to my mother... my mum always complain to me that my sister took all her money and bla bla bla....but the next day if my sister ask her for money even in a bad manner she still gives! everytime my sister goes on a holiday with her boyfriend, my mum is the one who gives her the money to spend there... she even scolded my mum after my mum helped her to change the money because it wasn't enough... WTH! my mum have to keep asking her how much she wanan change everyday about 1 week before she leaves for holiday.... my dad doesn't even know that my sister used his credit card to buy so many things and she owes him around 5 digits... before she go for holiday... he gave her money as well...
they only thinks that she is the best... earning a lot of money, independent... bla bla bla...thats what they go around and brag about her....
about me?? they'll just say..."yalar she's so soft...how to be a doctor also i don't know..." after all my results are better than my sister, they will still think she is the smartest in the family...whatever...i don't care....
but today...i am so so disappointed in what they said to me... ONE day before i go to bali, which is today... my mum finally asked me "do you wana change money? bring money and change la"
when i said i haven't change.... she wasn't even worried....
my dad.... "your bf so rich ask him to pay laa"...thats because my dad always think my sister's bf is not rich....but thats because they both used up all the money....
*speechless... Chris already paid for my airticket and hotel okay....
i was so angry just now..i just went to the bank and take out my money and change it myself....i don't wanna tell them that i changed my money to go to Bali.... who knows....they won't even bother....
it is not that i mind using my own money but i just feel that the money that i'm using, i save it for so long from the money they give me... whatever, i rather use that than asking them for money now....
wai teng
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dun be too sad leh wt.. i think we should start to accept nothin is fair in the world. i had accept the fact long time ago. haiya... it's alright. one day they will know.. dun be too sad k. i know it hurts.especialy when it;s parents.
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nicky
ermmm, good to see you to be so independent.
Since you know that what your sister did is wrong, maybe you should talk to her nicely about that, NICELY. If not sure quarrel one. Maybe like next time when she do that again, you just say la, Sis, don't talk to mother like that la.
I am sure that your parents got eyes to see who is good who is not one la. They are just being passive maybe, next time when you need money you just ask from them la. They are just used to your sister method.
If your father say something like that again you just tell him that you are not yet married to Chris la, or Chris has already spent a lot on you.
A family needs a lot of communications la.
I am sure that there are a lot of things which made you feel that your parents love you more right.
We all proud of you.
Jamie
hey girl i feel bad for wat ur experiencing now..just tell ur parents if u cannot stand it k..coz i used to be in this situation als o ithink..well at least something similar la..hehe! but watever it is i know sure dam nahrd to tell wan coz its ur parents ma..not easy to approach if they r so use to ur sis attitude..nvm..at least ur independent..cheer up!! *hugz* =)
much love
kher yin
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