wei i need help from u guys..help.. i need to settle my stuff here cos no ppl is helping me.. so sorry to brin family matters in.. is not wat i wan lah.. but i really need some opinion n suggestion from u guys.. i really dun know wat to do.. my sister who is 13 yrs old had a bf in schools where is an indian.. actually is my fault of being so busy body go n c her stuff in the letter lah.. now onlyi know tat she had a bf..actually i dun go against lah but i just feel too young to talk bout love cos it's just only 13.. too young.. maybe u guys think i'm so autocratic but i just wan her to grow really older first.. dun wan to get hurt in young age n she dun even really know how's tat guy.. through the letter i can c teh guys is like callin my sister out for a date in sunway pyramid.. then she say she can't go out.. then the guys ask y ur aunty always dun let u go out wan.. the he say if it's me i'm goin to chop my aunty head off n kick like a foot ball.. u c kids nowadays is so ganas.. i scared she will meet up with bad guy n one day run away from home.. at last my cousin sister talk to her lah n i have to be there too.. so u c not only my love problem her love problem also i have to keep track.. be a sister sometimes can be tiring..13 years old is really a time where one can very easy to learn bad things if mix with wrong people.. gal somemore... i can't be teher to know wat type of friends she mix with... so sickening.. i think i need panadol.. my cousin advice her to break up with him.. she nvr admit she start a relationship n nvr denied she had not.. she just keep quite.. after a while i ask her lah.. so have u break up with the boy she say she had but through those letter i kow she had not.. she is lying to me.. tat's wat really make me headache.. so guys as a sister position.. wat do u guys think is the best action to be taken??? n i wan to tell is i c her letter cos i wan to know wat she is really doin in the school.. i dun wan her to really like those kampung gal.. get pregnant at teh age of 17 n 18 n get married very very early..
HELPLESS
NICKY
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2 comments:
i think u shud really talk to ur sister. i mean really sit n talk to her. one-to-one. tell her to tell u the truth but u dun tell her u saw the letter la. later she lost trust in u. jus tell her to break up with the guy n tell her the consequences of having a bf at such a young age. tell her to be patient n wait til she is really ready to date. tell her the reason y u dun want her to have a bf now coz she may face the consequences of being a bad person n chances of getting pregnant is high if not careful etc. jus show her that ur jus being a caring n concern sis. but dun go n scold her k. afterall she is stil young.
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kher -yin
hey...form the way the indian guy say about your aunty right..i think he is those gangster type...tell her that if someone can say things like chopping ur family members he cna't be a good guy...it shows that he is very violent and its not safe to be his GF... tell her that she'll find someone that she really love next time....cz now she is too young to tell whether she love the person or its just a "like" or what ppl call a puppy love...tell her when she's old enough she'll regret all this which will be a bad memory instead of a good one....its nothing wrong to be friends with guys but don't be their gf...bcz they might do something to her is she is.... explain to her that this is the stage that everyone also will pass....if she make the wrong mistake she can never turn back...and if the guy really like her he can wait until she's old enough then only she should consider to be with him... if he can't wait then she should be happy that she didn't go out with such an unloyal guy.... and he is not the only guy out there next time..tell her she'll only be meeting ppl from her schoolwhich is a small group of ppl...when she go to college or uni...she'll see that there are so many choices out there...
wai teng
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